There are no arguments, so everything may seem okay on the surface. You interact every day in a vacuum where everything seems okay, because neither of you cares whether it is or not. Ideally, relationships help us not only love another human being, but grow as a person. They teach us lessons about life that otherwise would be difficult to learn, lessons about communication, listening, compromise, and giving selflessly of yourself and expecting nothing in return. Of learning to live with another human being and all that entails.
Beware indifference in a relationship. We're unpacking the exchange theory and breaking down what you're really attracted to in your friendships or romantic relationships. Jealousy and insecurity are common feelings most people experience at times. But when unexamined, these painful emotions can lead to more destructive….
Operant condition can be used at work, home, and at school to shape and change the way you behave and react. Do narcissistic traits originate from the same childhood place that codependent traits do? People who are indifferent can be seen as cold, aloof, disinterested, unmotivated, and lacking in passion. There may be several reasons for indifference. We receive information on our cell phones and from all of our friends instantly any time of day or night.
We are bombarded with horrible news from around the world at the very moment it occurs. On TV we can watch crime shows all day long showing the terrible things that people do to each other. All of this information can be somewhat traumatic, and so we may shut down emotionally and mentally as a coping mechanism. Indifference may occur when the problems of our life, our families, our communities, our country, and our world may seem so overwhelming that we feel quite powerless to do anything about them.
This means that even when we notice what is going on around us, we may feel unable to make a difference. And this is so much worse than any anger, or sadness, or resentment he could ever feel towards you. No pleading through tears, or desperate explanations of how you feel can bring him back to loving you in the way that you deserve.
You never get the explanation as to why things fell apart. These words are for us all. Beyond Worthy , by Jacqueline Whitney. Sign up for the Thought Catalog Weekly and get the best stories from the week to your inbox every Friday. You may unsubscribe at any time. By subscribing, you agree to the terms of our Privacy Statement. Indifference toward a particular group or ethnicity is an act of inhumanity.
Over time, this state of non-existence becomes more painful, not less so. This is because the human being is very much a social animal. So, though you may enjoy your days, weeks, months, or even years of solitude, eventually, your need for human contact begins to override that. In addition, too much isolation causes man to lose touch with whom he is — his personality, values, beliefs and boundaries — as well as his sense of humanity.
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